Taking 100% Responsibility for Your Life

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“You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” – Abraham Lincoln

Responsibility is a word which children fear and adults often shy away from. It signifies being held accountable for our actions and in a very real way, it will frequently determine the levels of success or failure within our own lives. So, the phrase “taking responsibility” may have some bitter undertones. Those who are not able to actively embrace such a proactive stance could be doomed to failure from the very start without having ever realised it. If you fear that you may fall into this category, it is important to take a look at how you can grab hold, take charge and become a responsible adult. The end results will likely shock you!


In this sense, we are referring to the basic notion that each of our actions will have a very distinct reaction. This is just as much a law of human nature as it is dominant within the world of physics. The first step in gaining a further sense of responsibility is to become aware that even the tiniest of decisions that you make will have a very real impact upon you and on those around you. When you can begin to see this cause-and-effect relationship, you have taken the first step in a profound journey.


None of us likes to admit when we are wrong. This can be a painful and embarrassing process. However, such an admittance is key in being able to move forward and learn from your mistakes. This is also an excellent way to avoid offending friends, colleagues and the significant others in your life. For example, let us imagine for a moment that you started a fight with your romantic partner knowing that you were fully in the wrong. Although it may be tough to admit this fact in retrospect, doing so will be able to strengthen the relationship and allow you to both grow as individuals. This very same concept holds true within the professional world.

There is no Tomorrow

A lack of responsibility and procrastination can frequently be observed occurring together. Perhaps you do not want to study for a test until the last minute. You could always find that you pay your bills as late as possible. You might not be fiscally responsible; believing in the concept “out of sight, out of mind”. All of these habits need to be broken if you want to be completely responsible. In other words, why put off doing tomorrow what could be accomplished today? You will feel much more in control and in turn, tackling the more difficult issues in life may suddenly appear to be quite within your reach.

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The Blame Game

Those who are irresponsible will tend to blame others for their failures. It is very hard to turn the proverbial “looking glass” upon our own actions and see how they could have been detrimental to our goals. So, it is critical to place the blame squarely where it is deserved. There may be times when a scenario was indeed out of your control. There will inevitably be other situations when a great deal of frustration could have been avoided if you had been able to approach an issue in a different manner. Developing the ability to look objectively at your life will provide you with the necessary insight to make better decisions.

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You might be surprised to see this recommendation mentioned here. There are nonetheless some situations when the most responsible thing to do is to let go. Examples could be a long-term and yet destructive relationship, a dead-end job or old habits that need to be eradicated. Sometimes, you owe it to yourself to walk away and regroup before starting over. This can actually be a form of self love, and an effective one at that. Pride is a poor substitute for happiness and you should always be honest enough to admit when a change is needed.

Make an Effort and Stick to It

Responsibility is as much a matter of habit as it is anything else. Simply because you desire this trait does not mean that it will magically appear out of thin air. So, you will have to work at it. Become disciplined and do not let your old demons creep up when you are unaware. No one has ever claimed that being completely responsible was easy. This may signify choosing new friends or eliminating a negative lifestyle such as drinking or smoking. The first step is always the most difficult, so it is important that you make a firm commitment from the very start. Without this rock-solid foundation, failure is nearly inevitable.

Responsibility is not a birthright; it is rather an attribute that not all of us posses. Keeping these suggestions in mind will allow you to stand tall, be proud and take control of your life.

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